Flylady Getting Started

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Getting Started with the FlyLady System

Welcome to the FlyLady system, a simple and effective way to bring peace, order, and joy into your home and life. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by clutter, struggling to stay on top of routines, or just need a clear starting point, this guide will help you begin your FlyLady journey with confidence.

Who is the Flylady?

FlyLady, also known as Marla Cilley, is a mentor and author who created the FlyLady System—a step-by-step approach to home organisation, cleaning, and self-care. Her philosophy encourages developing daily habits and routines to manage household tasks effectively, reduce stress, and reclaim joy in your space. The system is particularly popular for its focus on small, manageable steps, like starting with shining your sink, to build lasting habits. FlyLady's methods have inspired millions worldwide, including me, to find peace in their homes and lives. For more details and resources, you can visit her official website at www.flylady.net.

The Flylady Method

The FlyLady system is built on small, sustainable habits that grow over time, making it easier to manage your home without stress or burnout. The key is to start small and build gradually. Below, you'll find an introduction to the FlyLady 11 Commandments and practical tips to get started.

1. Shine Your Sink

Start your journey by cleaning and shining your sink. This foundational habit sets the tone for the rest of your routines. A shiny sink represents a fresh start and gives you a sense of accomplishment. Before bed each night, ensure your sink is clean and ready to greet you in the morning.

2. Get Dressed to Shoes

Every morning, get dressed completely, including lace-up shoes. This simple step signals to your mind that you're ready to take on the day. It’s amazing how much more productive you’ll feel when you're dressed and prepared, even if you're staying at home.

3. Establish Morning and Evening Routines

Your morning and bedtime routines are the backbone of the FlyLady system. Start small by focusing on just three steps for each routine.

For example, in the morning:

  1. Make your bed.
  2. Get dressed to shoes.
  3. Swish and swipe your bathroom (a quick wipe-down).

In the evening:

  1. Shine your sink.
  2. Lay out your clothes for the next day.
  3. Check your calendar or to-do list.

4. Limit Distractions

Avoid letting the computer or your phone sidetrack you. While it’s tempting to scroll or check emails, set boundaries for screen time. Use a timer if needed, and focus on the task at hand.

5. Tidy As You Go

Pick up after yourself throughout the day. If you take something out, put it back when you're done. This habit keeps clutter from piling up and makes your home feel calmer and more organized.

6. Focus on One Job at a Time

It’s easy to get overwhelmed when tackling multiple projects at once. Instead, stick to one task and see it through to completion before moving on. This approach helps you stay focused and prevents chaos.

7. Don’t Overwhelm Yourself

When decluttering or organizing, avoid pulling out more than you can put back in an hour. This keeps the process manageable and ensures you don’t end up with an even bigger mess.

8. Practice Daily Self-Care

Carve out time for yourself each day, both in the morning and evening. Whether it’s enjoying a cup of tea, reading a book, or taking a walk, nurturing yourself helps you recharge and stay motivated.

9. Work Quickly

Approach tasks with energy and efficiency. Work as fast as you can to get chores done, leaving you with more time to relax and enjoy your day.

10. Choose Joy

Smile, even if you don’t feel like it. A positive attitude is contagious and can transform your outlook. Make the decision to find happiness in small moments, and it will ripple through your day.

11. Laugh and Pamper Yourself

Don’t forget to laugh every day. Find joy in little things, and treat yourself to something special now and then. You deserve to feel cared for and appreciated.

Your Next Steps

  1. Start with BabySteps: The FlyLady system includes 31 BabySteps to ease you into routines. Begin with Day 1: Shine your sink, and build from there. 
  2. Use a Timer: Set a timer for 15 minutes and focus on a single task. You’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish.
  3. Join the Community: Connect with others who are on the same journey. Sharing tips and encouragement can keep you motivated.

The FlyLady system isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. Start small, stick with it, and watch as your home and life become more organized, peaceful, and joyful. You’ve got this!

Ready to take the first step towards a more organised home? Join me in my 31 BabySteps playlist on YouTube and start building positive routines today! Watch now!